I find it hard to write often because I don’t know how to put my thoughts into words. I feel myself reflecting on the past, and how I can overcome the regret and heartache. To be a better mom/wife I have to let go of the past. Well, not necessarily let go, just learn how to forgive those who have hurt me, and also forgive myself for the choices I made. I often find myself lodging the hard feelings down and never reflecting on them, this creating memory loss for me. I have come up with ways to help myself, and whoever it speaks to as well.
You are not a burden to those who care about you, and yes people care about you. Ask for the help if you need it. Talk to someone if you need it.
Be more attentive to yourself, I know your kid/s matter so much to you. You can only be a good parent if you are good to yourself first.
You are beautiful. Even after having a baby, even with the stretch marks/lose skin. You are so much more than a body.
Get ready if you want to, I know it’s a lot of effort but it will make you feel better. It’s okay to feel sexy.
Buy things for yourself, I know it may be difficult sometimes but you should cater to yourself as well.
Take care of yourself, mom. ❤️
Average Ordinary Mom 